"Old-Time Friends" | “Tampa” & “Brinski”

"It takes a long time to grow an old friend."

~ John Leonard

Tammy Lea ~ Age 1.5

I’ve said in the past, “In our lives, if we’re lucky, we’ll have all kinds of friends.  And although we appreciate them all for different reasons, there are some we come to cherish.”  Well, I’ve been lucky to have a few of those cherished friendships in my lifetime and although some last longer than others – there are just some which have been there from the very beginning.

 

Robin Adair ~ Age 2

Tammy Lea was and always will be my “first and forever” friend.  No one else can take that title away from her (or from me for that matter!) Born in two different years, yet just fifteen days apart, we were what our parents referred to as “play-pen” friends.  Loosely translated what they meant was that before Tammy and I could talk, crawl, or walk – we were “friends.”  Now that may sound odd to some and incredibly familiar to others.  However, if you fall into the latter group – you’ll understand exactly what I am talking about. Here we are in our earliest days - not only did we play together; clearly we dressed the same - even back then! (Note: This photo also lends evidence to those who still don't believe that I had RED hair until I turned three!) 

Tammy - Grade 1

As a child, the story I heard was that our families “go back” at least three generations. So, I would guesstimate sometime in the 1900’s. Our grandparents were friendly and our parents were even closer friends.  We came along in the late 1960’s - the third generation.  By that time, we had no choice.  In later years, I think we were just happy that we ended up liking each other - as if we ever had a say in the matter?!   

Robin - Grade 1

In the early days, Tammy and I lived in the same small town. However, just around the time school would start for both of us, her family moved to a more rural town about one hour away.  Now one hour is not a lot of time or miles when you can drive a car, but from that point on, we had to rely on our parents to keep us connected – and they did. We were fortunate because Tammy’s father “Tab” maintained his job even after they moved, so during the work week he commuted to and from my town.  I am not sure if this helped maintain our families’ connection, but I am thankful to this day if it did. Do you think it is a coincidence we are both wearing the color Purple in our 1st Grade school photos and looking super innocent?  I think not!  

Daily Inspiration | "Tea Time = "Me Time"

This morning when I went to brew my daily cup of tea, I remembered having recently purchased a box of Oregon Chai. I opted to try the expectantly scrumptious Chai versus my usual blend. As I unearthed the teabag from its pretty purple pouch, I noticed a matching purple tag dangling from its little white string.  You know the tag - the one that keeps your tea bag from slipping into the deep dark depths of your lovely cup of tea.  On the tag there was a short quote which read "Ooh, you've really got Me Time down." I chuckled out loud and then thought to myself, why yes I do!

You see, my daily "Tea Time" does equal my daily "Me Time."  Time to relax, to reflect, to think about all that the day may bring. Time to check my email, Facebook, blog, Twitter, - in other words, time to get inspired. I don't think of "Me Time" as an act of selfishness.  On the contrary, I think of it as vital. Everyone needs some time for themselves and a 30 minute daily dose is just the amount I would prescribe if I was a doctor, which I'm not - but you get the point right?  Unless we take time for ourselves, how can we be truly effective in all other areas of our lives?       

Robin Adair ~ Life Coaching | Blog

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 Go forward and make your dreams come true." 

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

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I specialize in life coaching for women and men who are struggling with life challenges, transitions, relationship issues, career related problems, parenting challenges, and more. I provide coaching services via telephone, Skype, and email.  I can coach you wherever you live - as long as our languages and time zones are compatible - the sky's the limit!